death Doula & End-of-Life Care
Bringing death back to the village
I support people approaching the end of life, and the families and friends caring for them. As a death doula, I offer a steady presence, help with difficult conversations and practical guidance as people consider what matters to them and how they want to be cared for.
You do not need to wait until someone is dying to get in touch. We can begin with a conversation about your wishes, your concerns or the choices available to you.
my story
In 2014, my family cared for my dad as he died at home. We were able to be with him in a familiar place, surrounded by people who loved him. That experience stayed with me.
Since Dad’s death, I have been Mum’s primary carer. She moved into residential aged care at 97, and I continue to support her through this stage of her life. Caring for both my parents has shown me how much it matters to listen to the person, honour their wishes and support those close to them.
How I can support you
Dying brings practical questions as well as emotional ones. You may be thinking about where you want to be cared for, who you want around you, what your family needs to know, or how to support someone you love.
I can help you talk through those questions, find information and connect with appropriate services. I also offer companionship and support to people who are dying and to their carers. If you hope to remain at home, we can talk about the support you and the people around you may need.
A death doula works alongside medical and palliative care. My role is to make space for the personal, practical and emotional parts of dying that can be difficult to navigate alone.
Bringing death back to the village
Families, friends, neighbours and communities can all have a place in caring for someone who is dying and supporting those who grieve. We do not have to know exactly what to say or do before we show up for one another.
I have completed Compassionate Communities training, which informs how I help people draw on the relationships and support already around them. I can also help you explore end-of-life choices, including planning ahead, care at home, after-death care and ways of saying goodbye.
There is no single right way to approach dying or grief. I will listen to what matters to you and help you consider what feels right for you and your family.
Let’s begin with a conversation
